Not a Kid Person?
On my last post at Baby Center, I wrote about stumbling-blocks to family peace during the hot, aimless days of summer. One of my seven points was this: You’re not really a kid person. There’s no shame...
View ArticleOverparenting to Avoid Prosecution?
Get Along Husband (Not really in jail.) How old do you think a child should be before he stays home alone for several hours straight? Waits in a car alone? Goes into the mall unsupervised? Babysits a...
View ArticleThe Parent Game
I had a dream the other night that I thought I’d share with you. In it, I find myself sitting in a chair, facing very bright lights. My eyes adjust as I feel the heat from their unyielding beams...
View ArticleA Thought on Chores and Consequences
Something I’m seeing a lot of lately in social media is parents using chores as consequences for misbehavior. Not only do these “grounded” kids have to do extra housework to get back to their video...
View ArticleHow To Make the Most of Your Character Curriculum
Honesty. Integrity. Kindness. Generosity. Humility. Strength. Charity. Look at all those pretty rows of tangible returns, gained through your loving and diligent teaching of “the Way” to your children....
View ArticleHow, Then, Shall We Parent?
Warning: This post contains no formula for raising “good” kids who won’t embarrass you in front of your church friends. So, I guess the people who like character “training” and systems of behavior...
View ArticleParenting for the Philosophically Fatigued
When I was about to become a mom for the first time, I spent a lot of time researching parenting philosophies. Most of the moms I know did the same thing, though I know a few who wouldn’t dream of...
View ArticleAre Abby Sunderland’s Parents Negligent?
Now that Abby Sunderland has been found alive and well, and is on her way home, (or is she already home?) it seems to be time to start picking apart the actions of her parents. Reactions have been...
View ArticleThe Road to Hell and My Good Intentions
Taking my six year-old to Pizza Hut last night to collect his very first–and very last—Book-It reward for reading, I asked him if he was looking forward to reading his next book. “Why would I want to...
View ArticleDon’t Spank Your Kids
Curse at them, instead. My friend Tara introduced me to a book I hadn’t been aware of before today. Go the F—k to Sleep, a parody bedtime story, is apparently what our generation considers parenting...
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